If you Know a Victim

Let her speak confidentially about her situation and without judgment. You may be the only person with whom she feels comfortable. Show you care in these ways: • Listen to her; Believe her; Do not minimize her struggle; Do not judge her; Do not blame her. • Tell her it's not her fault. You can never make someone else hurt you. • Give her the Safeplace Crisis Line number. • Let her keep important papers and extra clothes at your house. • Help when you can with transportation, child care, groceries. • Tell her she deserves to be safe. Physical violence in a relationship is never acceptable. • Help her learn not to deny or minimize the abuse. If she says, "It's really not that bad," tell her it is serious. • Assure your friend that violence in her home does concern you. There is no excuse for abuse. No one deserves to be abused. Domestic violence is a crime. BREAK THE SILENCE Stop The Violence Safeplace can help! 24 Hour CRISIS LINE 1-256-767-6210 1-800-550-9215